What will I do? My girlfriend is pregnant, but my parents don't want the baby.

Updated on : January 17, 2022 by Rhys Martin



What will I do? My girlfriend is pregnant, but my parents don't want the baby.

Last time I checked, your parents were not involved in the conception, therefore their opinion is invalid.

What are you going to do? You take responsibility for your actions. None of this, my parents said that I cannot raise a child because I am too young or I am too young, I will let my parents take care of my child while I live my young life. No, it doesn't work like that. Obviously, you are old enough to have sex and you knew the consequences of having unprotected sex. If the condom broke? I should have taken precautionary measures, the morning after pill. If she were at birth

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Last time I checked, your parents were not involved in the conception, therefore their opinion is invalid.

What are you going to do? You take responsibility for your actions. None of this, my parents said that I cannot raise a child because I am too young or I am too young, I will let my parents take care of my child while I live my young life. No, it doesn't work like that. Obviously, you are old enough to have sex and you knew the consequences of having unprotected sex. If the condom broke? I should have taken precautionary measures, the morning after pill. If she was on birth control and you were part of that 1% who managed to get pregnant while using, depending on how long they have been together, the children's conversation should have been discussed and what happens. The decisions you make are between you and your girlfriend.

Your parents disagree, so they have no say in the matter. If you are a minor, they have no legal obligation to have custody of the child. You will probably want to consult a family attorney to see if you have any responsibility for the child support that will be charged to you. but they have absolutely nothing to say legally or morally in terms of what their girlfriend decides to do regarding the pregnancy. None.

What you have to do is step up and support her in whatever she decides to do. If you don't have a job, get one. Take parenting classes. Get couples counseling to find out what the trajectory is.

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Your parents disagree, so they have no say in the matter. If you are a minor, they have no legal obligation to have custody of the child. You will probably want to consult a family attorney to see if you have any responsibility for the child support that will be charged to you. but they have absolutely nothing to say legally or morally in terms of what their girlfriend decides to do regarding the pregnancy. None.

What you have to do is step up and support her in whatever she decides to do. If you don't have a job, get one. Take parenting classes. Get couples counseling to find out what the trajectory of your relationship should look like, bearing in mind that you now have a third person who will bring you together in one way or another for life.

And go to the family planning clinic and find out about birth control !! You don't want another unplanned pregnancy, and clearly someone didn't teach you properly before.

What your parents want or don't want doesn't matter. They have nothing to say on this. I must add that you have no say in this either. What do you do for a living? Well I'd say be prepared to pay child support for at least 18 years. If you are a decent person, you will be there for those 18 years talking to your child on a daily basis, being a father to the child. Your girlfriend is essentially not pregnant, both of you are on the way to becoming parents. I have no idea how old you are, but you are seeing that 20 years of your life at least are very different from what you planned.

What wil you do in the future? Go buy condoms and use them

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What your parents want or don't want doesn't matter. They have nothing to say on this. I must add that you have no say in this either. What do you do for a living? Well I'd say be prepared to pay child support for at least 18 years. If you are a decent person, you will be there for those 18 years talking to your child on a daily basis, being a father to the child. Your girlfriend is essentially not pregnant, both of you are on the way to becoming parents. I have no idea how old you are, but you are seeing that 20 years of your life at least are very different from what you planned.

What wil you do in the future? Go buy condoms and use them. Get a vasectomy. Talk about birth control BEFORE you have sex and make sure it is in effect or use condoms or keep your pants buttoned.

Your parents AND you have nothing to say about it. It is your body and your choice that you decide to do.

If I were you, I'd be looking for a job right now. Child support payments will continue for 18 years and are mandatory. If you join the military, they will deduct payments directly from your check. They can also pay a little stipend to help with costs. Health insurance for the child will also be provided, which will be part of your court order.

Your parents have nothing to do with this. Since they didn't teach you about safe sex, they gave up all their rights and

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Your parents AND you have nothing to say about it. It is your body and your choice that you decide to do.

If I were you, I'd be looking for a job right now. Child support payments will continue for 18 years and are mandatory. If you join the military, they will deduct payments directly from your check. They can also pay a little stipend to help with costs. Health insurance for the child will also be provided, which will be part of your court order.

Your parents have nothing to do with this. Since they did not teach you about safe sex, they gave up all their rights and position regarding the acts of another person.

What do you mean by that?

Do you mean that your parents don't want to be grandparents or that your parents don't want to raise your baby for you?

If they don't want to be grandparents, screw them. They will know when the baby is born or not, but it shouldn't play any role in the decision-making process.

If you are trying to get someone else to take care of the baby, I urge you to find a wonderful adoptive family who would love to have the baby rather than trying to hand over responsibility to unwanted relatives.

What will I do? My girlfriend is pregnant, but my parents don't want the baby.

Be a man. Get a job and support your child. It is not your parents responsibility to deal with your mistakes.

You took a chance and you lost. Now she will support a child for the next 18 years.

Your parents have no say whatsoever. I don't care what your culture says, abandoning your child because mom and dad say so is morally bankrupt and evil. Stand up on your own. Be a man. Be a parent. Your days as a little prince are over.

First of all, it is not the decision of your parents that you must make.

The child will be yours, not theirs.

It is your job to "be a man" and to be a constructive part of the boy's life. If you don't want to be a part of the child's life, so be it.

I am really confused by this. If you don't love her, why do you worry so much about this? I suppose I can understand being against abortion on principle, but simply saying "I don't want to be with her" seems a bit strange in the same context. Perhaps women would not have as many abortions if they had more support. She is more likely to have an abortion if you leave her alone. If you don't care about the baby because it is yours, as in, you are simply against abortion on principle, you should stay with it during pregnancy because the argument against abortion includes parental responsibility.

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I am really confused by this. If you don't love her, why do you worry so much about this? I suppose I can understand being against abortion on principle, but simply saying "I don't want to be with her" seems a bit strange in the same context. Perhaps women would not have as many abortions if they had more support. She is more likely to have an abortion if you leave her alone. If you do not care about the baby because it is yours, as in, you are simply against abortion in principle, you should stay with her during the pregnancy because the argument against abortion includes parental responsibility, and as one of the two parents of the baby , you have parental responsibility. In this context, as the mother of the baby, she may owe you her life, but you owe both of them their support.

If you love the baby simply because it is yours, not because of your views on abortion in general, you are surely concerned about the baby's well-being. If you help her during her pregnancy, not only will you likely not miscarry, but you will also have a healthier pregnancy and a healthier baby. Once the baby is born, decide what is best for you as a family. Maybe that means staying together, maybe not. Who knows? Maybe sharing a pregnancy will bring you closer. If you really care about this baby as your own, don't you admire the hard work she's doing to bring your baby into the world? Even if you don't love her, you probably at least respect her for that. Right?

In other words, if you don't want her to abort because you're pro-life, that's great, but just as pro-life includes your duties as the mother of the baby, it also includes your duties as the father of the baby. If she has the responsibility to deliver the baby, you have the responsibility to help her with the situation you helped her get into. This baby is something they did together. Pro-life is about taking parental responsibility, so that extends to you as well. Any man who is truly pro-life will not abandon the mother of his unborn child, whether he wants to or not. Pro-life means that babies are a blessing, and if you say this, you just have to put your money where your mouth is! If you are pro-life for religious reasons, think of this as if God is testing you. Maybe God is not sure if you really are pro-life, and this is His idea of ​​making sure that you are the real deal. This is like a woman saying that she is against abortion until an unwanted pregnancy occurs. Defend your beliefs.

If you don't want him to abort because you want this particular baby, whatever your feelings on this matter, it is not good to get rid of your mother, especially considering that she is more likely to abort at that time. Staying with her, at least for now, is best for the baby. So if you love the baby (good for you!), It makes sense for you to stay with mom.

If you are not pro-life and you do not want the baby, I have no idea why you are asking this question, unless it is to annoy her, and in that case, I cannot help you.

If you have no plans to marry the woman, go. The obvious question about the unborn is ARE YOU SURE IT'S YOURS? There is only one way to find out! But even then the cheating part is the problem here and why you can't trust a woman who has cheated. So yeah, get out of here before I have any other offspring that aren't REALLY YOURS. The first one is yours, the next three can be of different types.

It is the year 2020 and there is nothing new under the sun. People need to act and think like adults in situations like this. Sex is easy to get when you have a vagina. Men do all kinds of things that men

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If you have no plans to marry the woman, go. The obvious question about the unborn is ARE YOU SURE IT'S YOURS? There is only one way to find out! But even then the cheating part is the problem here and why you can't trust a woman who has cheated. So yeah, get out of here before I have any other offspring that aren't REALLY YOURS. The first one is yours, the next three can be of different types.

It is the year 2020 and there is nothing new under the sun. People need to act and think like adults in situations like this. Sex is easy to get when you have a vagina. Men do all kinds of things that men wouldn't do for MEN, unless the guy is gay. Straight guys don't ask me if they can buy me dinner or compliment me on how good I look. Men do that to women in the hope of having sex. Women know it. We all know this. Now, to my point, all men know that there is a GAME to REST. All men know that if a woman has a child or CHILDREN of different men, the man has to DEAL WITH THOSE CHILDREN sooner or later. Let's face it, a guy who's mean to kids or a danger to kids WILL LIKELY BE CUT OFF BY THE WOMAN. That is, you will not get the PRIZE: sex. We are all adults here, so it is clear that a man who is NICE and tolerant of a woman's CHILDREN increases his chances of having sex. Therefore, all men know that treatment or interaction with the woman's offspring can change their chances of getting LAID. Here's the bad news - that's why there are dead beat DADS in the first place.

Let's look at a scenario: Rollo is a man who has gotten his girlfriend or wife pregnant, whichever you prefer here. The woman cheated on Rollo and he learns that she is leaving the woman so that she will never be seen or heard from again. Rollo has no problem leaving and not supporting his son because THAT'S THE NEXT GUY trying to get a sex job, not his. Because we just went over it above. A man who wants to kill a woman's offspring is not likely to have sex! It's about a man having sex. So if any woman is OK and needs financial help, don't you think there are men who will step up for something in return? You are crazy and we see this in novels, movies, and television scripts all the time. A man's money has been used to drive sex so often that there are some men who see all women as prostitutes for the right price. That is, some crazy men think that everyone who has a vagina will sleep with a man if the price is right, even their mom would do it for the right price in her reason for being. So if a man wants sex and the woman has children, he HAS TO PLAY A ROLE or he will miss out on getting laid. If she asks him for diapers, the man will probably do it in exchange for sex this time. Will it do it infinitely? NO! Just do enough to get laid. Ask the next man for money to pay the rent and many men ARE NO PROBLEM as long as there is sex for him. Discard sex and male favors STOP immediately. Does the child need new shoes? Well, there's a guy who buys his slippers to get laid. Does the kid need a new Xbox? Oh well, there is a guy who will trade the Xbox for sex. The boy Ole gets it all because his mother has a vagina! Rent money, money for clothes, help with bills, etc. She asks and SHE IS DOWNLOADING If you know what I mean, there are MEN WHO PROVIDE regardless. The bum has the rationale that “there's no way I'm paying this mother of my son fucking money ALLEGALLY for CHILD SUPPORT and Chad is driving her crazy on a daily basis. If he wants something then he needs to PAY, not me! "On many occasions when daddy has wealth, you get this pattern: There's no way daddy is letting a woman stay in an apartment that daddy PAYS FULL RENT for and here comes Chad to blow her up! “Oh hell NO, you don't! So Chad has to pay the fucking rent. "There are a lot of real men here who are NOT going to pay anything while another guy is having sex. If Chad is getting laid, Chad should take you out to dinner too. Don't ask another man to I take care of you like inviting you to dinner,

It is about all women with children and all men who want to have sex with a woman with children. This is not just a scenario like the one above. The above scenario has again been written so many times that it is ridiculous. A cheating woman has been a problem for hundreds, if not thousands of years. Well let me be general: DECEIVE in general has been around for a long time. We know there are clear patterns like the cheater can go through mood swings, always finding an excuse to leave for hours, hiding text messages, etc. So if a man wants some vagina, he won't let the boys get in his way. Now the biological father has a child that he does not need to take care of, it is super simple. These types of cornballs that make enough to get laid will not marry the women they have sex with. They are likely to see women as sex objects and that's it. Good enough to have sex and move on. NOW LADIES this is where you look HORRIBLE. YOU KNOW a lot of guys like this and yet you STILL give these cornballs a little bit anyway. Then later in life, you want another guy to marry you and take you seriously. It's a problem. Then later in life, you want another guy to marry you and take you seriously. It's a problem. Then later in life, you want another guy to marry you and take you seriously. It's a problem.

I hear you. This is not an easy situation to be in.

And I can really understand why she doesn't want to have an abortion. It is very painful. And consciously it hurts to know that you have killed a baby growing inside you.

And if I can understand why you don't want to be a father.

But this is the question. She can help you financially. Whether you plan to marry her or not. She can hire an attorney to pay her child support. And this could be until the child turns 18. It becomes an adult. You can enroll in state programs that should help you with state insurance so that both you and your baby

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I hear you. This is not an easy situation to be in.

And I can really understand why she doesn't want to have an abortion. It is very painful. And consciously it hurts to know that you have killed a baby growing inside you.

And if I can understand why you don't want to be a father.

But this is the question. She can help you financially. Whether you plan to marry her or not. She can hire an attorney to pay her child support. And this could be until the child turns 18. It becomes an adult. You can enroll in state programs that should help you with state insurance so that you and your baby are covered. Now, not every state in the US offers this. You must apply to your city social worker and to the state social security office. And from there they can point it in the right direction.

Having a baby and raising it with one person is very difficult. It takes a long time, costs money, and never ends until the child becomes an adult. And it still doesn't stop once they reach adulthood. Because they will want to meet your family. Your mother and who is your legal father.

If you decide to put the baby up for adoption. It is a lonely life.

I had the opportunity to meet adult men who were placed in foster care when they were little. It is a terrible life.

You are staying with other people and they feed you 3 times a day. Your clothing is what staff can find at Goodwill stores.

The money that the gaze receives. They are from donations. But this money is also used to buy food and help maintain the buildings and grounds where the children stay.

When you turn 18, they let you go. The state liberates you in society. It is up to you to find your way. Find a job. Or be homeless.

Your education, through the school system, is only up to grade 12. If you had a dream of going to college or a state university, you would have to find a way to do it. It would not be something that would be given to them.

So while I can see your point of view on not wanting to be a parent. I hope you can see what I have chosen to share with you.

Life has its ups and downs, everyone has to accept things as they happen. Take the good with the bad and prepare to never give up. Because in the end, life is good. I just have to keep trying harder and never jump off the boat because the waves are too big for surfing.

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