Have you ever had a hard time finding a job?

Updated on : January 21, 2022 by Lily Perry



Have you ever had a hard time finding a job?

Not until the government decided to interfere in my life. Until then, 2014, I never had a problem getting a job. I was always willing to take a job to get a job. I always knew that if I got a job, any job, I would eventually get the job I wanted. I just had to wait until that job was available, which was usually not very long. other people around you to cross you). I guarantee that if you make 200 applications online to get a

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Not until the government decided to interfere in my life. Until then, 2014, I never had a problem getting a job. I was always willing to take a job to get a job. I always knew that if I got a job, any job, I would eventually get the job I wanted. I just had to wait until that job was available, which was usually not very long. other people around you to cross you). I guarantee that if you make 200 applications online to get a job, you will get a job and you will get a lot of interviews. Everyone wants to apply and then get a job. This is not how it works.

If you have a bad interview, go to your local university and ask them to teach you how to interview. They have classes or workshops to show you how to interview for a job. You want to inform employers about your vacations and holidays. Employers don't want to hear that. You all think that if you go there talking about free time, that somehow translates to a lot of vacation time. Actually. Wow.

Your resume is probably shit too. Update your resume to reflect what the job descriptions say. So what if you have to do 30 different resumes? You obviously have a computer, which means you can easily cut, copy and paste for whatever the job description says and any jobs you want. If you don't want to pay for help, you have to get creative. I have posted a resume here in 10 minutes. If I can do it, you certainly can do it. I have edited the resumes here and the person got a job right away. If your resume sucks, you won't get the jobs you want or you won't even get a job.

A resume is not something you come up with on a Wednesday night when you have nothing better to do with your friends and family. A resume is a well-crafted piece of information that clearly describes what you can and cannot do. A resume is thoughtful, and a resume should be even more thoughtful and well-crafted. If you can't write a resume or CV, there are literally millions of free resumes online that you can use as an example …… .. even for people who have never had a job…. there are examples of resumes. You just have to search and search and research the ones that suit you and what you want and your education.

Yes. In 1998 I left my lucrative but I travel all the time I work to be with my father during his last months. He lived three hours away, but we closed his house and took him to stay with my husband and me in our house, closer to doctors and hospitals. I took him to dates and cooked for him and did everything I could, but we all knew it was going to come to an end. He did it, but not in the way we expected and it was even more difficult.

I was a mess. Our finances were in a mess. The stock market had plummeted and this was the Detroit metropolitan area. People were being laid off from their remaining middle management positions

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Yes. In 1998 I left my lucrative but I travel all the time I work to be with my father during his last months. He lived three hours away, but we closed his house and took him to stay with my husband and me in our house, closer to doctors and hospitals. I took him to dates and cooked for him and did everything I could, but we all knew it was going to come to an end. He did it, but not in the way we expected and it was even more difficult.

I was a mess. Our finances were in a mess. The stock market had plummeted and this was the Detroit metropolitan area. People in middle management positions were being laid off left and right. I was depressed on many levels. My husband took a second job (he was a full time systems engineer) at Walmart and I KNEW he had to get a job. (My father's inheritance had yet to be resolved, so we couldn't take advantage of that.)

I interviewed and interviewed a few more. There were always people younger or more experienced or less messy than me interviewing and they rejected me after rejection. Someone suggested that I take the H&R Block tax course and do taxes on them. I understood that if you took the class and passed it, they would hire you.

I quickly passed the class and certification test and was called in for an interview. They hired me on the spot to a location four miles from home. I spent two weeks working as a tax professional and received a late night phone call that my manager had had a family tragedy (very ill father) several states away. I wanted him to take on the role of chief tax officer and branch manager. I was the only person in the office who had management experience. So I did it. And it led to some really good career moves in the years to come.

It is not a path I would have NEVER thought to take, but it worked out of desperation.

I am posting more a continuation of the question. Yes I had it, I had it 11 years ago an amazing time to find a full time job. After having spent 20 years in the same company. They asked me to move and for personal reasons I said no and resigned. He was 45 at the time. The best of my game. Highly specialized. I thought I could easily find a job. I was wrong. The market was down. No one was hiring. I spent the next 3 years working as a freelancer. Not good. In the end, my position was reopened and my old employer rehired me. I was lucky. That was 11 years ago. Now older, wiser, kinder, nicer

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I am posting more a continuation of the question. Yes I had it, I had it 11 years ago an amazing time to find a full time job. After having spent 20 years in the same company. They asked me to move and for personal reasons I said no and resigned. He was 45 at the time. The best of my game. Highly specialized. I thought I could easily find a job. I was wrong. The market was down. No one was hiring. I spent the next 3 years working as a freelancer. Not good. In the end, my position was reopened and my old employer rehired me. I was lucky. That was 11 years ago. Now older, wiser, kinder, nicer, and more experienced on many levels. They "released" me. 2 months ago today, while on vacation, I was fired. The reasons, I can only guess. Salary, business restructuring, job integration, job cuts, new management, politics, millennials and AGE. It was all of the above. It is never "alone" about the end result and it will always be personal. But he accepts it, lives with him and moves on ... downstream and merges with the vast ocean ahead. Everything is fine and I strive to be happy. That is my challenge today.

Yes, I was unemployed for 1.5 years without employment insurance.

The government pretends to be your friend, but most politicians are thieves and liars. I was sleeping on the floor and eating the most shitty food. He didn't have enough money for public transportation. I complained to the government, but they did nothing. Why? Because they are a bunch of liars.

Established organizations have directly robbed me on multiple occasions and in those cases, when I contacted the government, they did nothing. All they were interested in was collecting their student loans and having the

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Yes, I was unemployed for 1.5 years without employment insurance.

The government pretends to be your friend, but most politicians are thieves and liars. I was sleeping on the floor and eating the most shitty food. He didn't have enough money for public transportation. I complained to the government, but they did nothing. Why? Because they are a bunch of liars.

Established organizations have directly robbed me on multiple occasions and in those cases, when I contacted the government, they did nothing. All they were interested in was collecting their student loans and looking good.

Once again, I'm between jobs. I have been out of work for 2 months and yet the government has been late in evaluating my EI, and the company I was fired from prevented me from doing so.

The world is a screwed up place.

As a fresh graduate in 1992, with no experience or credentials to show to an employer, but fortunately when I submitted my jobs to a private forestry company in Mindanao, I was considered for the vacant forestry researcher position. I did not experience difficult times.

But after finishing my master's degree, I find it difficult to apply to public universities as a university instructor. They kept saying I'm overqualified

I'm writing a personal answer, so take it for what it's worth. I am 51 years old with a wealth of education, certifications, and positions that in the past have helped me develop to take on ever-increasing senior leadership roles, responsibilities, and positions. A company I was working for merged with another cable company and my job was eliminated. To say that I have struggled has been an understatement. First, I applied for what I considered similar jobs. Then I said to myself, okay, apply for the next level. Then I started taking more free classes online and

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I'm writing a personal answer, so take it for what it's worth. I am 51 years old with a wealth of education, certifications, and positions that in the past have helped me develop to take on ever-increasing senior leadership roles, responsibilities, and positions. A company I was working for merged with another cable company and my job was eliminated. To say that I have struggled has been an understatement. First, I applied for what I considered similar jobs. Then I said to myself, okay, apply for the next level. Then I started taking more free online classes and really looked at my life and thought to myself. . . well, what do you think you do best and would you like to do? Then I went to the next level of good, I can do anything and I will accept anything. This is what I found.

  1. It is extremely difficult to get a job when you reach 40 years old. For whatever reason, it's seen as a liability and your experience doesn't seem to matter anymore.
  2. You can hear several things in the voice of the recruiter or hiring company.
    1. They think you'll leave if you get better.
    2. They are concerned about their previous salary and about matching it. It really doesn't matter how many different ways you try to tell them how flexible you are, money matters to them.
    3. They worry that even though you are saying all the right things, will you really fit into the culture, at a fast pace, each change (choose the words you see fit) and without saying it outright, are they telling you that you won? to fit in.
    4. They can feel your despair and love it.
  3. Job search engines are incredibly inept. Companies have taken traditional job descriptions and titles and turned them into something more. I can't even begin to tell you how many job inquiries I get when my resume has an impact on sales. I have never been in sales and there is nothing to suggest this on my resume. I also get a lot of visits for jobs that require certifications that I don't have. I would love to think, in addition to all the great things I have done in life, that I am also a nurse, an electrical engineer, a medical doctor, or some medical wonder. I am not. Why am I sharing this? Because it takes an incredible amount of work to get each of the jobs done, see if you are qualified, then be directed to your company's website and then go through the hour-long process to submit your resume. So your personal efficiency is very low at the end of the day.
  4. Times are desperate for me. I've gotten to the point where I'll take anything and everything. But with today's electronic sensing, I can't get past advanced systems for any department store, gas station, drug store, or shopping mall job. I tried to eliminate any schooling, advanced skills, certifications. Basically, I have simplified and simplified it, and these are for jobs that pay minimum wage.
  5. I have overused state resources and conducted all sorts of evaluation tests that have so far come to nothing.
  6. Despite what some may think, it takes money to make money. What I mean by this is that most states don't help you. Fortunately I receive food assistance, but not medical assistance or cash assistance. Let me also be perfectly clear to everyone on this. Getting food stamps means you can ONLY use them for food. Do you know what it is like to have no toilet paper these days? It's awful! It doesn't matter not having money for other necessities like shampoo, deodorant, toothpaste, laundry detergent, dish soap, etc. I think people forget that there are needs beyond food that most don't even realize how blessed they are to have them on a daily basis. My daughter receives medical assistance because she is still in school, but that is it. The reason we are alive is because my family helps me when they can and, in return, I live frugally. It's not uncommon for them to turn off the electricity and water simply because I can't pay the bill. So let's talk about Maslow's hierarchy of needs. They are feeding us, the rest is a stressful daily gamble. Sometimes I can get my meds, most of the time I have to give them up. I just pray every day that my daughter doesn't find me dead. She found her father dead and it wouldn't be right for her to find me. Instead, he's had to watch me have seizures because, for whatever reason, my brain gets stressed sometimes. I have NO idea how that could happen. But that's okay, let's assume I have the lower levels of Maslow's needs covered. When you have no money, How do you get the fuel to go to the job resource centers, the library to use the Internet to take courses, and then there are the job interviews themselves? There is NO help when you are down.

Would you say I'm lazy? Hell no! Like you, I live to fight the fight every day. I've just shifted my focus to the immediate because some days it's hard to get through the day and looking forward can make me feel depressed. I live for my daughter and I pray that we can celebrate Christmas and birthdays again. I pray I don't always have to say, "Sorry, we can't go anywhere fun." I pray that I don't feel so bad about not taking my medication so that I can get up and function every day. . . . But most importantly, I pray for a job so I can feel normal again. When I'm not looking for a job, I keep trying to improve. I have learned that I am a good cook and how far I can stretch my food. I have learned how expensive it is to buy a loaf of bread instead of making it yourself. I have taught myself to sew better. I am probably also considered a cross stitch expert and personally I am so proud of all my finished but unframed work that I could scream. When I run out of floss, fabric, whatever, I move on to a new skill that I still have supplies for (remember, I used to have money). I took over 20 years of flute lessons when I was young. I've forgotten many things due to seizures, so what a perfect opportunity to get my books out and try again. I always try to say positive and by nature, luckily, I am a positive person. I will not lie, I have often thought that it would be much easier for everyone if I was not here anymore, but my faith and my personal beliefs would never allow it. Most importantly, I would never, ever do that to my only daughter.

I'm sure I've said a lot more than you ever wanted to hear, but it's not about poor, uneducated people who want to make a living off the "system." I am poor now, but I have a university degree, an MBA, I am a certified Help Desk Manager, I have a master's certificate in IT project management, I have a master's certificate in Human Resources Personnel and Industrial Relations, I am certified At Targeting Selection, I have taught courses at both the undergraduate and MBA levels, and have worked for nearly 30 years starting at the bottom and working up the corporate IT ranks. . . . and I'm unemployed. I hang out with old colleagues and meet new people all the time. I am still unemployed. Most of the people I have met in my position are like me. Lazy is never, never a word that has come to mind. As horrified as I am to be in this position, I also know that if I don't share my own experiences, ignorance of what our politicians share will cloud normal people's thinking. There is no trickle down effect from companies to their employees. You are only as worthy as the company feels you are at any given time. You can work 7 times a week like me for many years in many different companies, and I can promise you that the only thing that matters to them is the bottom line and what you have done for me lately. Do not get sick, do not have a sick family member, do not have any traumatic event in your life, or show signs of weakness because someone will use it against you at some point. The utilities do not care that you are unemployed or offer subsidies to help you. Don't be fooled by the commercials you see on television. Do your own research, draw your own conclusions, and realize that each state has different programs with different rules and regulations. I can tell you with a high degree of certainty that none of these programs will work in your favor or make you want to stay in that situation. As for me, I need a job, but as long as I keep looking for one, I will also continue to smile and help others because even though I am unlucky, there is someone by your side who is as hungry as you are. If I've eaten today, I'll give you my sandwich. If I haven't eaten today, I'll give you half of my sandwich. If you look very hungry, I'll give you my whole sandwich because I can eat tomorrow. As for me, I need a job, but as long as I keep looking for one, I will also continue to smile and help others because even though I am unlucky, there is someone by your side who is as hungry as you are. If I've eaten today, I'll give you my sandwich. If I haven't eaten today, I'll give you half of my sandwich. If you look really hungry, I'll give you my whole sandwich because I can eat tomorrow. As for me, I need a job, but as long as I keep looking for one, I will also continue to smile and help others because even though I am unlucky, there is someone by your side who is as hungry as you are. If I've eaten today, I'll give you my sandwich. If I haven't eaten today, I'll give you half of my sandwich. If you look really hungry, I'll give you my whole sandwich because I can eat tomorrow. I need a job, but as long as I keep looking for one, I will also keep smiling and helping others because even though I am unlucky, there is someone by your side who is as hungry as you are. If I've eaten today, I'll give you my sandwich. If I haven't eaten today, I'll give you half of my sandwich. If you look really hungry, I'll give you my whole sandwich because I can eat tomorrow. As for me, I need a job, but as long as I keep looking for one, I will also continue to smile and help others because even though I am unlucky, there is someone by your side who is as hungry as you are. If I've eaten today, I'll give you my sandwich. If I haven't eaten today, I'll give you half of my sandwich. If you look really hungry, I'll give you my whole sandwich because I can eat tomorrow. I need a job, but as long as I keep looking for one, I will also keep smiling and helping others because even though I am unlucky, there is someone by your side who is as hungry as you are. If I've eaten today, I'll give you my sandwich. If I haven't eaten today, I'll give you half of my sandwich. If you look really hungry, I'll give you my whole sandwich because I can eat tomorrow. As for me, I need a job, but as long as I keep looking for one, I will also continue to smile and help others because even though I am unlucky, there is someone by your side who is as hungry as you are. If I've eaten today, I'll give you my sandwich. If I haven't eaten today, I'll give you half of my sandwich. If you look really hungry, I'll give you my whole sandwich because I can eat tomorrow. I will also continue to smile and help others because, although I am unlucky, there is someone next to you who is as hungry as you are. If I've eaten today, I'll give you my sandwich. If I haven't eaten today, I'll give you half of my sandwich. If you look really hungry, I'll give you my whole sandwich because I can eat tomorrow. As for me, I need a job, but as long as I keep looking for one, I will also continue to smile and help others because even though I am unlucky, there is someone by your side who is as hungry as you are. If I've eaten today, I'll give you my sandwich. If I haven't eaten today, I'll give you half of my sandwich. If you look really hungry, I'll give you my whole sandwich because I can eat tomorrow. I will also continue to smile and help others because, although I am unlucky, there is someone next to you who is as hungry as you are. If I've eaten today, I'll give you my sandwich. If I haven't eaten today, I'll give you half of my sandwich. If you look really hungry, I'll give you my whole sandwich because I can eat tomorrow. As for me, I need a job, but as long as I keep looking for one, I will also continue to smile and help others because even though I am unlucky, there is someone by your side who is as hungry as you are. If I've eaten today, I'll give you my sandwich. If I haven't eaten today, I'll give you half of my sandwich. If you look really hungry, I'll give you my whole sandwich because I can eat tomorrow. If I haven't eaten today, I'll give you half of my sandwich. If you look really hungry, I'll give you my whole sandwich because I can eat tomorrow. As for me, I need a job, but as long as I keep looking for one, I will also continue to smile and help others because even though I am unlucky, there is someone by your side who is as hungry as you are. If I've eaten today, I'll give you my sandwich. If I haven't eaten today, I'll give you half of my sandwich. If you look really hungry, I'll give you my whole sandwich because I can eat tomorrow. If I haven't eaten today, I'll give you half of my sandwich. If you look really hungry, I'll give you my whole sandwich because I can eat tomorrow. As for me, I need a job, but as long as I keep looking for one, I will also continue to smile and help others because even though I am unlucky, there is someone by your side who is as hungry as you are. If I've eaten today, I'll give you my sandwich. If I haven't eaten today, I'll give you half of my sandwich. If you look really hungry, I'll give you my whole sandwich because I can eat tomorrow. there is someone next to you who is as hungry as you are. If I've eaten today, I'll give you my sandwich. If I haven't eaten today, I'll give you half of my sandwich. If you look really hungry, I'll give you my whole sandwich because I can eat tomorrow. there is someone next to you who is as hungry as you are. If I've eaten today, I'll give you my sandwich. If I haven't eaten today, I'll give you half of my sandwich. If you look really hungry, I'll give you my whole sandwich because I can eat tomorrow.

Oh man, what a great question. What a GREAT question!

I am a professional "contractor". I have dedicated more than twenty years of my life to hiring, interviewing and making hiring decisions for and with companies.

And myself, I am currently looking for work, so I think I have some context to answer this question!

For starters, it is not that HARD to get a job. Compared to working as a farmer, or in a foundry (I guess!), Or ship breaking, applications and interviews are pretty easy things to do. Sure, it takes time, but the physical effort isn't really that significant.

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Oh man, what a great question. What a GREAT question!

I am a professional "contractor". I have dedicated more than twenty years of my life to hiring, interviewing and making hiring decisions for and with companies.

And myself, I am currently looking for work, so I think I have some context to answer this question!

For starters, it is not that HARD to get a job. Compared to working as a farmer, or in a foundry (I guess!), Or ship breaking, applications and interviews are pretty easy things to do. Sure, it takes time, but the physical effort isn't really that significant.

So why doesn't everyone get the first job they apply for? (Perhaps these are clearer questions that get to the heart of what you are asking?)

One reason is that the hiring is broken. It is largely a guessing game. The resume is an imperfect tool for demonstrating the critical skills and experience that many jobs require; the interview doesn't measure those actual skills, it just asks you to talk about them; And hiring managers are not hiring experts, they are usually experts in their field of choice.

Managers don't think critically about what they really need from an employee (they really need), and HR departments don't do a good job of helping them define (and make known) those skills and needs. That means that you, as an applicant, read a list of job titles and requirements, and you have to guess if you are fit or not. (So ​​you hedge your bets and apply for a bunch of jobs that you are not fit for, or just WANT to be fit for.)

Develop a resume that consists of a set of words that you have carefully selected and placed in a way that you think will be interesting to the person reading it, and it may or may not be. And you never really find out how it worked (unless you get an interview).

Interviewers ask a lot of questions that don't make sense or don't help them assess whether you would be a good employee or not. They ask stupid questions for which you have a predefined answer, or they ask questions that they should in no way trust your answer. Interviewers have “favorite” questions that they believe are divine “true” answers, but are actually trick questions that the interviewer interprets through their own biases and experience.

Interviews rarely give a candidate the opportunity to really demonstrate their expertise or ease in the skills they will use on the job. The interview is an artificial environment, and it is a scenario that hardly anyone will ever create again when doing their job. Candidates won't talk about what they do, they will. Interviews hire good storytellers.

There is also a strange imbalance of power in hiring. Companies seem to want to keep actual qualifications for the job secret. (This may be because they are very poorly defined and threats of legal action for some of the real reasons. Often times, critical skills for office jobs are work ethic, passion, drive, tact, self-motivation, independence, smart politics, etc., how do you interview someone for those things?) Most of the people you interview are rejected for rather minor reasons. "Cultural adjustment" is a big problem (what does that really mean?). Sometimes a question is answered in a bit of a roundabout way, but the hiring team places enormous importance on anything strange and they tend to exaggerate things. Full candidates are rejected on the mere suspicion of a hiring manager about a given answer! A suspicion!

Candidates often don't have enough information (or power) to ask meaningful questions in return. They have the company's website, Glassdoor, and maybe a friend or two to ask about what the job really entails, or what it's really like to work there, and then if they get an offer, they just accept it.

Interestingly, hiring managers almost always tell us that they don't want to accept the first candidate they interview. Even when that person is a perfect fit! They want to compare them to someone else! Now that's probably pretty understandable, in a way, but I guess hiring would be "easier" for about 15% of openings if the hiring manager hired that perfect first candidate without knowing anyone else. fifteen%!

Finally, some jobs are really complex. They really require what we call a "purple squirrel". It can be two jobs mixed into one and may require a strange combination of strange skills. Every company is different at any point in its history, and matching your current situation with the people who do your work can be tricky. The team you will join is also filled with unique people with their own abilities, flaws, political leanings, and finding the right mix to complement / fight / improve those people is somewhat tricky.

Entire books have been written on these challenges, but few accept the solutions that are offered. Solutions can be time consuming, expensive, and even add significant complexity to a process that you already consider "difficult." Maybe one day you'll be a hiring manager or in charge of hiring, and you can join me in trying to make things better!

I have a sassy and sexy wife. As a couple we have done many fun acts and sexual adventures. But once we were so trapped that we are alive today it is only by the grace of God. That incident was a revelation for us. After that incident, we have decided that we will not do such risky acts again. This incident is a great defeat for us. I feel ashamed in front of my wife when this incident comes to mind. We tried so hard to forget this, but still this incident is very fresh in our memory. The incident occurred due to my ignorance and overconfidence. I share that incident step by step.

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I have a sassy and sexy wife. As a couple we have done many fun acts and sexual adventures. But once we were so trapped that we are alive today it is only by the grace of God. That incident was a revelation for us. After that incident, we have decided that we will not do such risky acts again. This incident is a great defeat for us. I feel ashamed in front of my wife when this incident comes to mind. We tried so hard to forget this, but still this incident is very fresh in our memory. The incident occurred due to my ignorance and overconfidence. I share that incident step by step.

In the first confinement, my wife showed her desire to find a prostitute online. So I allowed him this. Found a prostitute online. She had a chat with him and after this she had a video chat with him. After that, they made a plan. According to the plan, the child will come to our house and take her home. But he was worried about this. He couldn't allow her to go alone. Then my wife asked if my husband could come with me. He agreed with this. They set a meeting date. On the day of the date the boy comes home and hangs out with us. After this, my wife and I accompanied him in his car. That time I was so ignorant that I didn't even ask him where we were going. He took us to his country house in a remote area of ​​Haryana. This time I did not take my service revolver because of my overconfidence. My wife does not take anything with her. She wears a sexy backless outfit. I took my wallet and my cell phone. He takes us to his country house. There was no one in his country house. He tells us that he has given his servants permission. So here we are only three present and we will enjoy. My wife and I were quite satisfied with it. Because it was the perfect situation my wife wanted. He slowly begins to touch my wife and ask her to change her clothes. But my wife reminds him that he has not come with clothes. So he gives my wife nightwear and asks her to change her clothes. She changes her clothes and comes back in lingerie. It was a nightgown. They start having an affair, kissing and kissing. I was present there and I was very happy to see my wife enjoying her fantasy. After that, they have started having sex. After having a round of sex, they both go to the kitchen. My wife cooks for us. Everything is going well. At night he takes my wife to her room and they enjoy the whole night. During this they also enjoy in the pool. He fucks my wife in different places. Gives you an erotic massage. My wife gives him a blowjob and licks his ass. In the morning they both sleep hugging each other. I also sleep. So far all things happen on our way but in the morning around 11 o'clock I hear some men's voices. I wake up in a hurry and try to understand the situation. There were 5 men standing by the bed my wife and her partner slept on. The child wakes up in a hurry and dresses in his clothes. My wife tries to stop him but he leaves that place. I follow him and ask him what's going on here, but he's leaving the country house. I try to stop him, but my wife screams from inside, so I run towards her, but 2 men stop me to go towards my wife. I was surprised by this. I ask them what's going on and then they explain that they usually catch girls with this guy's help. This guy looks handsome, so many girls fall in love with him. He catches the girls and takes them to his country house. After this, he takes his amount and hands us that girl. I ask them what they do with the girls. They laugh and say that you will witness this. Wait and see what we do to your wife. It was completely blank. So I asked them to meet my wife once. But they won't let me. I start to fight with them but after this two of them start beating my wife. Then I have to control myself. I ask that my wife do whatever they say, but in front of my eyes. But they tie me with ropes near a pole. Where I can hear my wife's screaming voice only. After two hours my wife comes to me completely naked with 2 men. These two men warn her that if she does not obey their orders, they will brutally beat her husband. They were blackmailing us. They treated my wife like a slave. She was cooking for them. He was serving them alcohol. She was dancing for them. She was giving them a blowjob. She lays on his lap so they can play with her tits. No clothing was allowed. They take off our clothes. My wife and I were completely naked. They fuck my wife 12-15 times a day in front of me. I was helpless at the time. 3 days have passed. We ask them to leave us but they say that his wife has so many sexy boobs that they cannot leave her so early. You will never find such huge tits. My wife says they can do anything to her but leave us. They say they will leave us in little condition. I ask about the conditions. They count four conditions.

  1. You have to write two handwritten notes with your signature that you are a prostitute and you came here for the money. No one has forced her to do anything. She does all things for money.
  2. She has to shoot some porn videos.
  3. You have to go to a hotel room where you will meet a person. The person will fuck her.
  4. She has to go to a house where she will meet a person who will fuck her.

So we accept their conditions because we have no other choice.

So first of all, my wife writes two handwritten notes in which she writes that she is a prostitute and that she came here for money. She is writing this note without any pressure. No one had sex with her without her consent.

After this they ask for the filming of some porn videos.

You have to record 3 porn videos. A cameraman and a light man arrive there. They set up their camera and their light.

In the first video she performs solo sex with a vibrator.

In the second video the gardener of the farmhouse fucks her with the mask on.

In the third video she is fucked by the driver in her room.

After recording these pornos, the cameraman and the light man also fuck my wife.

After all this they give my wife a sexy outfit and ask her to sit in the car. They won't let me go with her. It was a night that he was so worried but I am assured that his wife will be safe. So the driver takes her to the beauty salon and warns her not to do anything smart, otherwise her husband won't stay alive. My wife was following his orders. In the beauty salon, my wife prepares for her client. After putting on makeup, she was ready to go see her client. The driver takes her to the 5-star hotel where she goes to a room where a man was waiting for her. He spent the whole night with the man. The man fucks her at night. In the morning the driver takes her to a house that was in the outer zone. The driver forcefully removes her dress and tells her that it is the order she must follow. So after taking off her clothes, he locks her in the house and tells her that she can get some rest here. After this, the driver left the scene. My wife tries to escape from there but there was no way to escape. So she waited there. My wife was in a house without clothes. After an hour a lady comes and gives my wife 20,000 rupees and the keys to the house. My wife asks about the clothes, but says she will receive them soon. After the lady leaves that place. A few minutes later, two men come to the house and start touching my wife forcefully. My wife shows some resistance but is warned that her husband is still there. After this they forcefully fuck my wife. They fuck my wife so bad. After finishing sex, these men wear their clothes. My wife asks for their clothes. But suddenly two policemen with two policewomen enter the room and arrest them all. My wife was surprised to see the police. She was completely naked. The police searched the house and got my wife's dress that she was wearing when we went to the farmhouse. They receive a handwritten note from her and the house keys and Rs 20,000. During this two men tell the police that they were called by her and she took 20,000 for this. The police allow them to escape from there. The police lady slaps my wife and insults her because she does prostitution work here. The police give her the dress and tell her to accompany them to the police station. She wears her dress. My wife was arrested by the police. She goes to the police station with them. They force her to sit on the floor.

I was at the farm house when my phone rings. They give me my phone and my clothes and tell me to get out of here. I put on my clothes in a hurry and leave that place in a hurry. After leaving the country house, I call the number and they tell me that my wife has been arrested for prostitution. It was shocking to me after this, I asked them for the address of the police station. I take a motorcyclist's elevator. And then he rents a car to get to the police station. When I get to the police station, my wife sees me and runs up to me and hugs me tightly. The cops try to separate us. I go to the deputy inspector and ask him about the charges. Then he shows me the handwritten note from her and 10,000 rupees they found from my wife. I ask the sub-inspector to come. He comes with me. I ask you for an agreement. It says ' It's too late. But I ask repeatedly. finally accepts. He assures that he will not bring any case against her. I ask him the amount. An agent sends us who informs me about the payment and the method of payment. I go to the bank with my wife and take 12 lac rupees and give it to a nearby showroom. After doing all this, I take the car and arrive at our house. My wife and I were crying a lot. The next day I took my 3-month leave from the office and went to my hometown with my wife. My wife was in metal trauma for two three months. This incident took a long time to get over. After this incident I took the transfer from Delhi. Now I am in Chennai. Our life has completely changed after this incident. An agent sends us who informs me about the payment and the method of payment. I go to the bank with my wife and take 12 lac rupees and give it to a nearby showroom. After doing all this, I take the car and arrive at our house. My wife and I were crying a lot. The next day I took my 3-month leave from the office and went to my hometown with my wife. My wife was in metal trauma for two three months. This incident took a long time to get over. After this incident I took the transfer from Delhi. Now I am in Chennai. Our life has completely changed after this incident. An agent sends us who informs me about the payment and the method of payment. I go to the bank with my wife and take 12 lac rupees and give it to a nearby showroom. After doing all this, I take the car and arrive at our house. My wife and I were crying a lot. The next day I took my 3-month leave from the office and went to my hometown with my wife. My wife was in metal trauma for two three months. This incident took a long time to get over. After this incident I took the transfer from Delhi. Now I am in Chennai. Our life has completely changed after this incident. The next day I took my 3-month leave from the office and went to my hometown with my wife. My wife was in metal trauma for two three months. This incident took a long time to get over. After this incident I took the transfer from Delhi. Now I am in Chennai. Our life has completely changed after this incident. The next day I took my 3-month leave from the office and went to my hometown with my wife. My wife was in metal trauma for two three months. This incident took a long time to get over. After this incident I took the transfer from Delhi. Now I am in Chennai. Our life has completely changed after this incident.

They were very smart people. They used my wife very intelligently. First they hire a handsome guy who can catch a pretty girl or family women. After catching the girl, he fucks the girls and delivers them to her. They fuck the girl and enjoy with her for a few days. After this, they make pornographic movies of her and sell them on the apps or on the internet. After this, a handwritten note is taken away from him so that he cannot prove his innocence. They send it to their client for money or to do their favor. They send my wife to a famous lawyer in a 5-star hotel. After this, the girl is sent to a house where the police can raid and prove that she is a prostitute. Later, that girl will tell the police about her identity and about her parents. Her parents will give them all their savings to save their daughter. Those people are so powerful and they work together.

So this was my wife's last adventure. She is recovering from this incident. I am also struggling to forget this incident. This is the biggest loss of my life and I have never told anyone about this incident. It's the dirtiest secret of my life.

The people who find it easier to find a job are those who do not have mental blocks associated with achievement, those who have an open availability or who meets what the employer is looking for, it never hurts to be resourceful, people who know how to hurry , who have the personality that fits the position (friendly and laid-back for the service rep, no family for someone who is likely to die while working, etc.), flexible apart from hours, generally well-maintained is a must, experience is often be an asset or a necessity, although some employers look for clean slates and those who are outgoing.

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The people who find it easier to find a job are those who do not have mental blocks associated with achievement, those who have an open availability or who meets what the employer is looking for, it never hurts to be resourceful, people who know how to hurry , who have the personality that fits the position (friendly and laid-back for the service rep, no family for someone who is likely to die while working, etc.), flexible apart from hours, generally well-maintained is a must, experience is often be an asset or a necessity, although some employers look for clean slates and those who are outgoing.

People who have the hardest time finding work are the opposite. People who are not even looking for work, lazy people, people without ambition, lack of confidence, people who have a strange attitude in different ways, dramatic flames, unreliable people, people who don't mind having a house or a car, etc. or who want to be homeless because they are not going to work for the man, stinky people, who do not realize that they look haggard due to poor hygiene practices, those who are not outgoing, have poor combination skills and generally those that are not persistent.

Personally, if I were a hiring manager, I would avoid hiring shy people. I wouldn't completely dismiss someone for being shy and would look at the other skills they have to offer to take precedence over their shyness. At the same time, nobody wants to work for someone who doesn't want them back. I also dislike people who are overly belligerent in the workplace; Belligerent people sometimes keep quiet to begin with until they feel comfortable. Never mind, I'm a terrible judge of character, so it's good that I'm not in charge, haha.

How do they hire you?

Finally. They hire you by engaging in conversations with people trained in hiring decisions who are looking for people with your skills and backgrounds.

The conventional way of doing involves these steps:

  1. Job offer. The contracting entity publishes a job title.
  2. Resume. This means yours. To be successful, it must be keyword rich, customized for a given job description (see 1, above).
  3. Interviews This usually begins with an initial 15-30 minute phone conversation, then typically involves one or more rounds of video and / or on-site interviews. For technical positions (e.g. Dev
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How do they hire you?

Finally. They hire you by engaging in conversations with people trained in hiring decisions who are looking for people with your skills and backgrounds.

The conventional way of doing involves these steps:

  1. Job offer. The contracting entity publishes a job title.
  2. Resume. This means yours. To be successful, it must be keyword rich, customized for a given job description (see 1, above).
  3. Interviews This usually begins with an initial 15-30 minute phone conversation, then typically involves one or more rounds of video and / or on-site interviews. For technical positions (for example, developer, security, or infrastructure), you will also have one or more rounds of technical interviews. In an early stage, a conversation should be struck about the desired compensation to ensure that expectations are at the same stage.
  4. Background Check. Most organizations that send out offer letters condition them to successfully pass a background check. This may involve one or more than a criminal checkup, financial health checkup, or drug test.

TL, DR: Judging pig diarrhea scores

I once had a job at the university working on a research study on pigs. This was the worst job I've ever had, and it usually ranks high on the list when the topic of bad jobs comes up in a meeting. It was disgusting and uncomfortable in so many ways: physically, mentally, and ethically.

The basic premise of the study was that bacteriophages, viruses that infect bacteria, may have applicability in reducing the prevalence of unpleasant foodborne diseases that cause insects in pig populations. Pigs are full of bacteria, of course, but these viruses were selected based on their tar

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TL, DR: Judging pig diarrhea scores

I once had a job at the university working on a research study on pigs. This was the worst job I've ever had, and it usually ranks high on the list when the topic of bad jobs comes up in a meeting. It was disgusting and uncomfortable in so many ways: physically, mentally, and ethically.

The basic premise of the study was that bacteriophages, viruses that infect bacteria, may have applicability in reducing the prevalence of unpleasant foodborne diseases that cause insects in pig populations. Pigs are full of bacteria, of course, but these viruses were selected based on their targeting of bad bacteria. Since these bacteria live in pigs, the idea was that the virus could stop the spread of insects between them.

Every 8 weeks we received very cute pigs, about 1 week old, and placed them in a biological containment facility for animal experiments. It was a concrete bunker-like basement with no windows and huge rooms with double doors filled with sterilizer for entry and exit. Once past these rooms, we enter a prison-like hallway with doors marked with the animal and the information from the experiment. First we put on coveralls, socks and sock covers. Next we opened the first level of doors, put on rubber suits, earplugs, goggles, rubber boots, and masks. Then we "showered", grabbed our gear, and went into the rooms with the pigs.

The pigs were first infected with a massive dose of bacteria, before spraying their environment with a massive dose of bacteriophage. To monitor your health, we take weights and rectal temperatures daily. We also looked at "diarrhea scores." When the thermometer is removed from the rectum of a sick pig, a bowel movement is induced.

The diarrhea scoring system:
1. pasty
2. shot out of the pig at an angle of about 100 degrees
3. shot out of the pig almost straight at 180 degrees -----> so

When the pigs reached around 30 kg, this process became very difficult, and most of us complained of back problems from arguing and holding the pigs.

Perhaps the most dramatic part of the stage was the steam. The holding pens were steam cleaned, so the facility was always very hot and smoky. This added to the heat and humidity of the rubber clothing, but it also set the dark and scary tone of the place very well.

Usually I felt like an evil torturer from a horror movie, but I didn't get the kind of pleasure that made me laugh evilly. Sometimes we laugh out of disgust or frustration. The day we put the pigs to rest was always particularly traumatic for me.

... all in the name of food safety :(

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